I mean, love B/W a man and a woman?
Hmm.. Let me put down what i generally see around..
It all starts with that first look... the first smile..and then.. they start "Going around".. But how long does this last?
And when you really analyise it, they have time for everythin.. but love.
Trust me, all that each one wants to do is to dominate their partner.
I mean they want to know everythin their partner does, and not look into their own life..?
There is absolutely no trust, each one feels insecured, distance is something they think can ruin their "love relation"...
Is this love??
Ok, they go out for movies.. shopping.. make love .. n Hang around..?
Is this Love?
Hmmm and still ther is frustraion, insecurity, .. i mean wats it anyway
So let me put down wat love is all about, and how it has become the "not all about:..
Trust.. The first thing which defines love, but the thing that ppl lack.They cant trust their partner, insecurity takes the better of them
Freedom:Extinct is the word.. Itz domination, the guy wants to rule over the gal, or vice versa.. I mean Love is to give, not take. Itz like giving wings to your partner, so that he/she can fly high, and not cage them and bind them with some unsaid rules of love..
Take this: One does not like the other's frenz.. or the guy does not like if the gal goin out with any other guy freinds of hers..itz like gettin jailed..
Sacrifce:No I am not talking of sharing a pastry and call it sacrifice. Its much more, which people are not willing to do.They all wanna have fun and tatz the bottom line.
Understanding:Oh! forget it, this is something they just keep pleeding each other all the time.
Itz the willingness to ignore ur mind, and consider the other one's happiness.
Good one.. ma frean tells me that she is happy today.. and why? cause she help her fren patch up with her guy. Now wat do you think she did?a good deed? No way.. IF a couple cant even u.stand each other, and require external support to hold their relation, then wats the point? and how long will the castle built air last?
For a couple, the priority should be their relation, then thier ego.. rather itz better they don have any sort of ego..
Relation: I guess the relation is best, when two opposite people find love in common. It is when when one completes the other.It is only then things are balanced, else one quality is in excess.. and one lacking.Balance is mandaotry.
Growth:Itz again dominated. Loving someone is like see a plant grow and bear lovely flowers and fruits.But that doesn happen, they need each other's support, but not each other's growth..
Itz like one wants a carrer in dance/music.. the other thinks its waste, and takes decision? wats the point of life when you cant do what you want to do.
talking: I mean, wats it to cal someone and start.."say somethig".. and then talk all bullshit.. and bring unnecesary shit in life.. itz like disturbance i guess.
I guess I can go on like this.. so let me jus define it.. wat i think and belive..
Love: I mean itz like the ultimate bond of trust.Where two people belive in each other,and they want to see each other grow. The relation is the first priority and not their ego or likes.Itz giving in to each other completely with out a doubt. And itz not that u need to be connected 24 7 or somethin. Itz to make sure ur partner is happy 24 7. Couple of movies which i can suggest u for this is "notebook", "a walk to remember".. Love the joy of looking at your partner smile, give wings to fly, and take the pain and never cry.
