Love?

so wat is love is all about?

I mean, love B/W a man and a woman?

Hmm.. Let me put down what i generally see around..

It all starts with that first look... the first smile..and then.. they start "Going around".. But how long does this last?

And when you really analyise it, they have time for everythin.. but love.

Trust me, all that each one wants to do is to dominate their partner.

I mean they want to know everythin their partner does, and not look into their own life..?

There is absolutely no trust, each one feels insecured, distance is something they think can ruin their "love relation"...

Is this love??

Ok, they go out for movies.. shopping.. make love .. n Hang around..?

Is this Love?

Hmmm and still ther is frustraion, insecurity, .. i mean wats it anyway

So let me put down wat love is all about, and how it has become the "not all about:..

Trust.. The first thing which defines love, but the thing that ppl lack.They cant trust their partner, insecurity takes the better of them

Freedom:Extinct is the word.. Itz domination, the guy wants to rule over the gal, or vice versa.. I mean Love is to give, not take. Itz like giving wings to your partner, so that he/she can fly high, and not cage them and bind them with some unsaid rules of love..

Take this: One does not like the other's frenz.. or the guy does not like if the gal goin out with any other guy freinds of hers..itz like gettin jailed..

Sacrifce:No I am not talking of sharing a pastry and call it sacrifice. Its much more, which people are not willing to do.They all wanna have fun and tatz the bottom line.

Understanding:Oh! forget it, this is something they just keep pleeding each other all the time.

Itz the willingness to ignore ur mind, and consider the other one's happiness.

Good one.. ma frean tells me that she is happy today.. and why? cause she help her fren patch up with her guy. Now wat do you think she did?a good deed? No way.. IF a couple cant even u.stand each other, and require external support to hold their relation, then wats the point? and how long will the castle built air last?

For a couple, the priority should be their relation, then thier ego.. rather itz better they don have any sort of ego..

Relation: I guess the relation is best, when two opposite people find love in common. It is when when one completes the other.It is only then things are balanced, else one quality is in excess.. and one lacking.Balance is mandaotry.

Growth:Itz again dominated. Loving someone is like see a plant grow and bear lovely flowers and fruits.But that doesn happen, they need each other's support, but not each other's growth..

Itz like one wants a carrer in dance/music.. the other thinks its waste, and takes decision? wats the point of life when you cant do what you want to do.

talking: I mean, wats it to cal someone and start.."say somethig".. and then talk all bullshit.. and bring unnecesary shit in life.. itz like disturbance i guess.

I guess I can go on like this.. so let me jus define it.. wat i think and belive..

Love: I mean itz like the ultimate bond of trust.Where two people belive in each other,and they want to see each other grow. The relation is the first priority and not their ego or likes.Itz giving in to each other completely with out a doubt. And itz not that u need to be connected 24 7 or somethin. Itz to make sure ur partner is happy 24 7. Couple of movies which i can suggest u for this is "notebook", "a walk to remember".. Love the joy of looking at your partner smile, give wings to fly, and take the pain and never cry.

My Restless Mind

Itz been long since I have written a blog.. jus not been able to find time.. anyway.. wat do i have to say...
Itz a restless mind I have.. never stops thinkin.. never.. it starts from one thing.. and then to another.. like a chain reaction..
it starts with one thing, and then goes to next.. and next.. till i realize, I am thinking stuff completely outta the world..
my mind never stops, .. but the problem is the thought
itz random, makes no real sense, goes from topic to other, and as nothing creative or productive,
At times i dont get sleep, whole night my mind races through the the most wierd things ever, till i realieze, itz time to get up for work.
I joined gym. yeah, to burn all those extra calories.. but the major reason, to drain my body .. so i have no energy left... so i can get peacefull sleep..
i think... i dream.. till i realize, i have lotta work to do.
it distracts me, i cant concentrate on work.. things go for a tose.. and life...
but my mind just doesn stop

it thinks.. and thinks..

life??

sometimes i wonder if thr is a place, whr thr is no caste system.. no oc or bc.. all one.. admissions are based on brains.. and not on birth.. i mean what sense does it makes to admit a bc to iim, and not a person who has the caliber , jus because he is oc?? why so??
a place, where there is no hindu, muslim, no sikh, no christian,.. god is one and all, or atleast the understanding that all religions have the same goal... eternal life.. salvation..
a place, where people dont fight over the name of religion.. spilling blood all over, which according to them is a way of saving their community, or protecting it..
very disheartenig, of what is happening around.
dad advices me to watch the news, but is there to watch?? another bomb blast? another suicide bomber? another terror attack?? this is what i need to watch??
and best of all, after all damage is done, no one wants to make things right
what is the first thing is done???
people blame on the government, government blame on security..and it goes on like this, till the matter cools down, and no one cares!!
i mean. how many of us really remember about the mumbai terror attacks?? how many of us are really doing anything?
and not to forget about out brave leaders., they are too busy beating nort indian students, who have taken up an exam which is not held in their territory(U know who I am talking about), or they are too busy molesting women who went to pub, jus to have a good time.,(u should know this)... so forget the issue of expecting nethin but chaos,blood,pain... sometimes i feel we have terrorists sittin and commanding in our own country, and noone can even touch them.
sometimes i wonder, what is the formula to such supreme commandig power??? power to beat up innocent and weak people???
huh!! ask anyone of them to fight for the country, stand at the border with a ak-47,to look into the face of death, and still fight.. trust me, they will piss in their pants. itz easy to, or too easy to imortalise somthing, which is weaker than you. but why cant people fight with someone of their own size??
And what have the brave soldiers got, who gave their lives to save people whom they never knew?? A sum of cash for their family(which according to me was way to less for what they did)


which would do nothing much??[[An Olympic shooter wins a Gold Medal (only a game) and the government gives him 3 Crores and too many awards!Another shooter dies, fighting with the terorists, saving our country and our lives, and the government pays his family 5 Lacs.Truly a Great India]Yes, I am talking about Major Sandeep Unnikrishnan, who gave his life. Who remembers him today??
Did he ever think whom he is saving?? Malyali?Hindu?Muslim? huh??? did he even think? but no, we have to have Caste system in the highest level in this country. India is blessed with a muli-culture, multi-lingual.. so much to learn, so much to explore.. so much to see. But no, we have to fight, converth this beautiful blessing, in some sort of a curse.. a reason to spill blood. And what is the best are leaders do, beat up innocent Indians, on the grounds of caste.
.[[ I guess, terrorists will find India very easy to handle, cause we are too busy fighting among ourselves....]]
I wonder what Major would be thinking if he could see us from Heaven??
And they say tat caste system has been abolished! But we still have reservation for SC,ST,BC,OBC etc etc.. Yeah itz ablolished... and taken up at the highest level...and then they have to fight for it.Each one wants reservation for his caste...
so where is justice??
Anyway, This blog is for Major Sandeep Unnikrishnan.It is something for us to learn that cast and religion doesn really matter. No, None of us know why we are born in a particular religion background family, and none of us know where we are going.
And for all his bravery.
May his soul rest in peace... and ..hmmm no.. i dont feel like saying Jai Hind or nethin.. no

movies

I hardly watch movies, once in a while, but when i do, i take it setious.. take it in my mind.. and start relating my life with it.. take rang de basanti.. the scene when aamir has a chat with Su, in the car, when they come down to drop kunal... how true the things he says.. that he has a name... respect.. only coz he is in the univerity.. and he wants to stay in the university.. coz he knows and beleives, that in the real world, itz not all that easy to survive.."ki gate ki is taraf life hame nachati hai, to gate ki us tarf life hume nachati hai.. tim lak lak, tim lak lak...".. so true, man i miss my college life now, how easy things were, all we tat was needed was a "maaaaaaaaaaaam", n a free hour, all tat we needed was a ex-cuse, to get to the canteen.. when a phone call meant.. "when are u comin for party??".. and now would mean.."what time is the presentation??"".... n now.. life has begun to show itz true colors.. life at the corporate is jus the opposite.. noone to help u.. no one to guide u.. as they say.. "survival of the toughest".. .. "tim laklak tim laklak"..

take Dil chatha hai.. the scene where all three are sittin on the parapet wall, n start wondering about a ship,. that it is visible now.. and after a while, it would be gone.. analogy.. of how we frenz are ..all togethr.. moments in the canteen.. claiming pride in getting a "0" in the test... showing off with good copying skills.. discovering new places whr food is cheap and good.. whr b day was a nighmare.. where being chucked out of the class was considered an honour.....and now.. ship is gone.. on itz way.. .. all of us would be on our way .. and thats what has happened.. itz half a yr since coll completed.. n now.. thigs have changed.. I MISS U GUYS.. i really do.. .. to all u guys @ SRM, who made my college yrs the most memorable and spledid time of my life.. and ya.. i can never forget my goa trip.. i miss all of it....

skeleton key.. i dont think you would have seen the movie.. well you should take sometime out and watch this movie.. it explains the concept of faith.. how things work if.. and only if u have faith in it.. how they trap a girl , and make her belive, that there is something known as black magic, and how it works, and finally take advantage of her faith, and trick her with the same black magic.. and itz true.. not black magic, but the idea of faith.. it is all in you, to beleive or not to beleive.. and things do work .. it is like how u have faith in god.. as they say, u can experience miracles, only if u have faith in god.. and so on...

oops.. i got some work.. will complete this soon..

somethin bout Blore

itz jus been around two weeks since i have moved in here, n i hav discovered, that whether there is a medical store on a street or not, and for that matter, even a pco.. but there is defintly a "Daru ki Dukan" and ccd on every street of bangalore!!!

24/12/08

this is my first blog!
gonna write how things go on in ma life
rite now taking up trainin.. for java.. but the funny thing is tat .. itz expected tat we complete it in jus a week!! can u believe tat!! i mean.. it requires time to practice.. programming jus doesn come like this.. itz bout practice.. crazy man!!